love in my point of view...

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who loves us. We miss out on so many beutiful things and simple because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man/woman of deeds and not for the man/woman of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man/woman you love but the man/woman who loves you more.


The best lovers are those who are capable of loving form a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. To let go of someone doesnt mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him too come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that is kept in your heart.


Do not let the bitterness lure away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You man find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness comes only with open acceptance of what reality is today.


There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful/handsome and we just find ourselves getting do intensely attracted to that person. This feelings so becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.
The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just frienship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.


You dont have to froget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Dont lelt your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tommorow. If you lose love that doesnt mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that the tears was away the hurt and the bitterness that the past as lelft you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime......